In social situations, using sarcasm or derogatory language to embarrass others, especially for those who are committed to public welfare and charity, may have a negative impact on interpersonal relationships and atmosphere. Sincere and respectful communication is the basis for building positive social relationships. If you have different views on certain charitable behaviors or attitudes, you can try to express them in the following more constructive ways： 1. **Ask open questions** For example: "How do you think to balance charity investment and personal life?" ”(To explore motivation rather than criticize) 2. **Share different perspectives** For example: “I recently read an article about the transparency of charity. What do you think? ”(Trigger discussion rather than attack) 3. **Use humor to resolve rather than irony** For example: “You don't even have to make a donation for a weekend dinner, do you?" ”(Pay attention to the relaxed tone and avoid derogatory meanings) 4. **Express your feelings directly** If the other party's enthusiasm makes you feel stressed, you can say: “I admire your persistence, but sometimes it's good to talk about other topics. ” --- People who are truly passionate about charity are often out of kindness, even if the way may be different from your values. Instead of using irony to create barriers, it is better to understand each other's starting point with empathy, and perhaps discover more common topics.