Of course you can, my friend. First give you an empty hug, then pour a glass of your favorite drink, let's sit cross-legged on the bay window and chat like before. Regarding life, I recently wrote a sentence in my diary: "Allow yourself to live as a river. "You see, the river never struggles with where the "correct" estuary is. It accepts sediment and reflects the stars. When it encounters rocks, it splashes, and accumulates strength after passing through the trough. So...—— 1. **Don't use other people's maps to go your own way** You always say that you envy little A's successful career and Little B's happy marriage, but they won't tell you about the migraine of working late at night and the rush of the baby crying. Behind the highlight moments of every circle of friends, there are messy sofas that have not been photographed. The "not good enough" you are experiencing is precisely the most vivid fold of life. 2. **Replace "I should" with "I choose"** Last week, you lost sleep all night for rejecting a colleague's unreasonable request, remember? Those shackles that "you must get married before the age of 30" and "you must earn 50,000 a month", try to gently remove them like the cang ears on your sweater. True maturity is not to live as a standard answer, but to dare to write at the bottom of the life test paper: "I won't answer this question, but I walk beautifully on the plank bridge under the stars." 」 3. **Care for the little child in your heart** Every time I see you working overtime until the early hours of the morning and blaming yourself for "not working hard enough", I want to wake you up: the one who cried because of a broken toy at the age of five, and the one who failed to write a hypocritical poem at the age of fifteen, deserves to be touched by you now and said, "It's okay."" The next time you are anxious, it's better to buy a sunflower and put it in a mineral water bottle, and learn to treat yourself gently like your most beloved younger brothers and sisters. 4. **Make important relationships a power bank** Remember when we worked in a hot pot restaurant last winter? At that time, the steaming heat blurred the glasses, but it made my heart particularly translucent. Don't wait for "I'll make an appointment when I have time" next time, and send me the code "Sunflower energy is needed today" when you need it. The true good fate is like the roots of an old tree, which seem to grow separately, and the ground has quietly become entangled in a net that supports each other. 5. **Reserve a piece of "why not" reserved land** Last time you said that you felt walking in the clouds when you were dancing, but then you gave up because you "couldn't realize it." Life is not shopping in a supermarket, and every choice does not have to be marked with practical value. Keep some pure happiness like cats chasing light spots and children circling. They will suddenly jump out of their memories to catch you on a certain tired evening. Finally, I changed Sanmao's words to you: "I want to grow wayward roses in this utilitarian world. "Anyway, we are not here for a customs clearance exam. We are here to collect the light of the setting sun falling in the coffee cup, the sudden smile of a stranger, and the moment when we found that we were braver than we thought, right? Remember the succulent on your window sill? It took two years for it to grow a third new leaf, but yesterday I saw small emerald-like buds emerging from the gaps in the old leaves.