Discussing “As long as I succeed by myself, don't others care about it?" ”When dealing with this issue, we need to analyze it from multiple dimensions, including the relationship between the individual and society, ethics, psychological needs, and actual impact. The following is a structured thinking framework and possible answers： --- ### **1. The nature of personal success and social connection** -**Interdependence**： Personal success is often inseparable from the support of others (such as family, colleagues, and mentors), and ignoring others may cut off sources of resources and opportunities. For example, entrepreneurs rely on teamwork, and scholars rely on the academic community. -**The value of social capital**： Interpersonal networks (social capital) are the key to long-term success. Isolation may lead to information blocking, reduced opportunities for cooperation, and even affect reputation. ### **2. Ethics and Ethics Perspective** -**The balance between self-interest and altruism**： -**Extreme egoism**: Advocating “success is justice”, but it may lead to moral indifference and social alienation. -**Moderate altruism**: Achieve a win-win situation through mutual assistance (such as Bill Gates' charity), and enhance social recognition and sense of self-worth. -**Boundary of responsibility**： It is not an unlimited responsibility to help others, but complete disregard may violate basic morals (such as seeing death or not saving). It needs to be weighed within the scope of competence. ### **3. The impact of psychology and well-being** -**Risk of isolation**： Psychological studies have shown that loneliness is related to depression and anxiety. Even if the material is successful, the lack of emotional connection may lead to inner emptiness. -**Helpful positive feedback**： Supporting others can enhance self-efficacy, enhance a sense of social belonging, and form a virtuous circle. ### **4. The complexity of the actual situation** -**Competitive success**： In zero-sum games (such as competitive sports), personal success may directly lead to the failure of others. You need to accept this reality, but you don't have to actively harm others. -**Successful collaboration**： In the field of business or scientific research, cooperation often creates greater value (such as open source technology communities), and ignoring others may limit one's own development. ### **5. Possible balancing strategies** -**Priority management**： Focus on your goals without sacrificing basic interpersonal care (such as family and close friends), but avoid excessive energy consumption. -**Optional support**： Provide reasonable assistance (such as mentorship, resource sharing) based on one's own capabilities and the needs of the other party. -**Long-term perspective**： Success is dynamic, and maintaining social relationships can provide a buffer for future crises or new opportunities (such as the role of networking in career transformation). --- ###**Conclusion** Completely "regardless of others” may be short-term in theory