Regarding whether to "only consider for yourself", I think this requires a specific analysis of the specific situation.： On the one hand, proper attention to one's own needs and well-being is a healthy manifestation of self-love, and everyone has the right and responsibility to take care of themselves. In some cases (such as personal safety, health decisions, etc.), it is necessary to prioritize yourself. On the other hand, as social creatures, human beings inevitably connect and influence each other in our lives with others. Just think about it for yourself. Maybe： -Damage important interpersonal relationships -Lose the benefits of mutual assistance -Lack of empathy and broader perspective -May harm others under certain circumstances A balanced lifestyle usually includes both taking care of your own needs and considering the well-being of the people you are connected to. This is not a simple binary choice of "self-interest" or "altruism", but to find the right balance in different situations. Are you facing a specific situation or decision? This way I can provide more targeted thinking.