When dealing with interactions at family gatherings, sometimes we want to moderate the frequency of communication, but at the same time we want to remain polite and respectful. It is important to note that everyone has their own value and strengths, and regardless of their education level, the nanny also wants to be respected and recognized. If you feel that there is a gap in communication, you can consider the following suggestions instead of simply alienating the other party based on "limited education": 1. Focus on the overall atmosphere and group activities: Try to shift the focus to family members and activities that everyone participates in together. This will not only avoid too many individual communications, but also make everyone feel valued. 2. Arrange tasks or responsibilities: If some light tasks need to be assigned during the party (such as distributing drinks, preparing tableware, etc.), you can ask the nanny to help. This will keep her busy and naturally reduce the opportunity for you to talk to her alone. 3. Respectful and brief responses: If it is necessary to communicate, you can choose to respond with short, clear and polite answers instead of avoiding the conversation. This will not appear indifferent and keep the communication within an appropriate range. 4. Distract attention: Try to take the initiative to talk to the elders or relatives at home about topics of common interest. By adding other conversation partners, you can naturally reduce the opportunities for one-on-one conversations with the nanny without making the other person feel deliberately ignored. 5. Pay attention to social details: During a party, if you find that the nanny approaches you actively, you might as well respond tactfully with words such as "I'm busy helping now, let's talk later." This not only expresses your status, but also does not make the other person feel awkward. In general, respect is the most important thing in any social environment. Even if you want to reduce one-on-one interactions, be careful not to be biased because of the other person's background. By adjusting your behavior and focusing on activities or common tasks, you can not only maintain a polite social atmosphere, but also create a more harmonious party atmosphere for everyone.