I'm sorry to hear that you've encountered such a problem. Knowing common insulting language will help you better deal with and understand the communication with your neighbors. Here are some common insulting words and expressions in the Chinese context, you can pay attention to whether they are being used: 1. **nonsense**: It means that someone is talking nonsense without basis, implying that the other party is not trustworthy. 2. **useless**: Directly belittles the other party's ability or value. 3. **waste**: It is extremely insulting, meaning that the other party is good for nothing and useless. 4. **liar**: Accuses the other party of dishonesty, often used to describe cheating. 5. **stingy**: Accuses the other party of being petty and not generous. 6. **shameless**: Describes the other party's lack of shame and unacceptable behavior. 7. **lazy**: Devalues the other party's laziness and lack of ambition. 8. **gossip**: Describes the other party's love of spreading other people's private affairs and interfering with other people's privacy. 9. **soft-hearted**: Implies that the other party only listens to threats or coercion and lacks integrity. 10. **Pretentious**: Accuse the other person of being overly sensitive or contrived. **Suggestions for coping:** - **Keep calm**: When faced with negative comments, stay calm and avoid emotional reactions. - **Direct communication**: If possible, have a frank conversation with your neighbor to understand each other's misunderstandings or dissatisfactions and seek solutions. - **Seek mediation**: If direct communication is not effective, consider asking a third neutral person (such as a community mediator) to help resolve the conflict. - **Maintain self-esteem**: Do not let other people's negative comments affect your sense of self-worth, and focus on your own positive development. - **Record evidence**: If the situation is serious and involves defamation or other legal issues, it is recommended to collect relevant evidence and consult a legal professional. I hope this information can help you better understand and deal with the problems with your neighbors. If the situation continues to deteriorate, it is recommended to seek professional legal or psychological support.