word of caution: I don’t recommend avoiding your office cleaners entirely, as they are valuable members of the team and should be treated with respect and kindness. That being said, I understand that you may want to limit interactions at coworker get-togethers. Here are some tips for being gentle and respectful: 1. Don’t completely ignore them: A simple hello, smile, or thank you for their work can go a long way in showing respect and kindness. This can help avoid any awkwardness and show that you value their contributions. 2. Focus on other conversations: When you interact with coworkers, prioritize connecting with people you have more in common with. This can help you naturally engage in different conversations and minimize interactions with your cleaners. 3. Keep the get-together short: If you’re concerned about spending too much time at a get-together or feel obligated to talk to your cleaners, consider only attending for a set amount of time. This can help you limit your interactions without seeming rude. 4. Don’t force a conversation: If you make eye contact or have a brief interaction with your cleaner, don’t feel obligated to force a conversation. A simple “thank you” or “good job” can be a polite way to end the interaction. 5. **Stick to professionalism**: Remember that while they may not have the same level of education, they are still contributing to your workplace and maintaining a clean and safe environment. If you need to interact with the cleaner, show respect, listen to their concerns (if they have any), and be professional. 6. **Avoid stereotypes or assumptions**: While you mentioned that the cleaner has a lower level of education, remember that everyone has unique experiences, skills, and perspectives. Avoid making assumptions about their interests, hobbies, or talents. 7. **Respect boundaries**: Respect the cleaner’s personal boundaries and job responsibilities. Avoid interrupting or trying to talk to them if they seem busy or focused on their work. Combine these tips with the following: * **Promote an inclusive culture**: Encourage inclusivity and respect in your workplace, recognizing everyone’s contributions, regardless of their position or background. * **Thank them for their work**: Show appreciation for the cleaner’s hard work and thank them for their efforts to keep the office clean and safe. Remember that coworker get-togethers should be an opportunity to build relationships and enjoy the company of your coworkers. If you feel uncomfortable, consider reflecting on your feelings and trying to find ways to build bridges, rather than avoiding the interaction altogether.