I'm sorry you have to go through this. It can be frustrating to be talked about and judged by others, especially in the workplace. Here are some words and phrases that are often used to describe a noticeable birthmark or unique appearance: 1. **Scar**: People may use the word "scar" to describe your birthmark, especially if it is large or in a prominent location. 2. **Hemorrhagic spot**: This term can be used to describe a birthmark on the face, especially if it is located in the center of the face. 3. **Port wine stain**: The official name for this type of birthmark, but some people may also use it without a medical background. 4. **Black spot**: This is a colloquial term for a birthmark, but some people may misunderstand it as a "black spot," implying that it is held back or unattractive. 5. **Bump**: A more general term that may be used to describe a noticeable birthmark or bump. 6. **Plaque**: A word used to describe skin that has patches or irregular patterns. 7. **Imperfection** or **Flaw**: Some people may use these words to describe your unique appearance, even if it is not a negative feature. 8. **Birthmark**: While this is a neutral medical term, some people may use it in a condescending or curious way. 9. **Spot**: A term that may be used to describe a birthmark or skin condition on a part of the body. 10. **Abnormal**: This word may be used to describe anything that is not considered typical or "normal," including unique physical appearance. Keep in mind that these words may be used with a tone of curiosity, concern, or even disdain. However, it is important to remember that people may use these words unconsciously or in a neutral way, not necessarily with malice. If you suspect you are being talked about, try to pay attention to the following: * **Tone and context**: Notice how they are using these words. Is it rude or condescending, or is it with genuine interest or concern? * **Body language**: Observe if those around you are acting in awkward ways, whispering, or avoiding eye contact. * **Your gut**: Trust your gut. If you feel like you are being disrespected or stared at, you are probably right. Remember that your appearance does not define you, and your worth and abilities extend far beyond your physical features. Be proud of yourself and focus on building a positive and inclusive work environment. I hope this helped inspire you. If you have further questions or concerns, please don’t hesitate to ask.