If you know someone on the inside, try asking them for help. Many high-level clubs are actually quite flexible about membership referrals, especially if the referrer is reputable or has a prominent position within the club. However, whether you can ultimately join the club will depend on the specific rules and policies of the club, as well as your own situation. When contacting someone on the inside, you can do this: 1. Express your interest in the club and your recognition of its culture or activities. 2. Ask them why you want to join and what value you can bring to the club. 3. If possible, provide some background information so that they can get to know you better. It is recommended to be sincere and respectful and respect the club's rules and regulations. At the same time, building a good relationship is beneficial regardless of the outcome. Good luck!