I'm sorry to hear that you've had this experience. If you find your coworkers using code words to comment on appearance, usually these code words may be subtle or derogatory. Here are some common descriptions: 1. **Suggestive phrases**: such as "unique personality" and "unconventional appearance". 2. **Comparison**: using certain people or things that are considered average-looking to make comparisons. 3. **Humor**: mentioning in a joking or nickname way. 4. **Change the subject**: deliberately shifting the topic when talking about other positive traits, such as "she/he is very capable at work". Instead of being confused about these, it is recommended to focus more on how to improve the work environment or communicate with colleagues and solve problems. If these comments affect your mood or work, you should consider reporting to the human resources department or your superiors and seek professional help and support. Remember, everyone's value is not just in their appearance, but in their behavior, skills and inner qualities.