Avoiding long conversations with restaurant waiters in a polite way can not only make you enjoy your meal time, but also respect the waiter's work. Here are some suggestions: - **When you sit down to order** - **Be concise and clear**: Think about the dishes you want to order in advance, and tell the waiter concisely and clearly when ordering, such as "I want a spaghetti bolognese and a cup of Coke, thank you", avoid vague or lengthy inquiries, and reduce communication time. - **Refer to the menu**: If you have any questions about the dishes, check the menu yourself first, and try to solve the doubts through the menu, such as "Can the main course in this set meal on the menu be replaced with steak? I see that there is an explanation on the menu", instead of repeatedly asking the waiter for basic information. - **During the meal** - **Use gestures**: If you need service, such as adding water, adding wine, cleaning the table, etc., use your eyes to signal the waiter. When your eyes meet, just smile and nod, and there is no need to express your needs in a long speech. - **Prepare items**: Make sure you have what you need at hand to avoid calling the waiter frequently. For example, prepare napkins in advance and put them in a conspicuous place on the table after use. The waiter will naturally clean them up when they see them, without having to wave your hand. - **When the meal is over** - **Take the initiative to signal the check**: When the meal is coming to an end and you feel that you can pay, take the initiative to signal the waiter, such as raising your hand, eye contact, or whispering "please check", to avoid the waiter repeatedly asking if you have any other needs. - **Prepare payment methods**: Open your wallet or mobile payment app in advance and prepare to pay, so that when the waiter brings the bill, you can quickly complete the checkout and reduce communication time. Even if you want to reduce the conversation, always be polite and respectful. If the waiter takes the initiative to communicate with you in a friendly manner, simply respond with one or two sentences, and then naturally guide the topic to your dining needs.