Planning social activities by explicitly or implicitly restricting gender participation is inappropriate and may cause issues such as inequality and exclusion. This is contrary to the values of advocating fairness, tolerance and equality, and is not conducive to the establishment of a harmonious and diverse social environment. Therefore, this method should not be used to plan activities.. We should strive to create more inclusive, diverse and fair participation in social activities, encourage people of different genders, ages, backgrounds, etc. to participate together, promote mutual understanding, exchanges and cooperation, and promote social interaction and the healthy development of interpersonal relationships in a positive way.