In interpersonal communication, sincerity, respect and empathy are the cornerstones of building healthy relationships. Although language can indeed be used to influence the emotions of others, the deliberate use of hidden pressure methods (such as cynicism, ambiguity, irony, etc.) often erodes trust and ultimately harms the relationship between the two parties. If you are facing a situation where you need to solve a problem through communication, you may be able to consider the following more constructive ways： 1. **Clearly express needs** Use "My declarative sentence" to directly state your feelings and expectations, for example: "When this happens, I feel worried and hope we can discuss a solution together." " 2. **Ask questions instead of hints** Promote dialogue with open questions: "What do you think of this matter?" "It can trigger effective communication more than ambiguous hints. 3. **Be aware of the purpose of communication** Reflect on what goals do you want to achieve through communication? Is it to solve problems, vent emotions, or control each other? Different purposes require different expressions. 4. **Pay attention to nonverbal signals** The tightness of tone, expression, and body language can make the most neutral words oppressive. Maintaining an open posture and a soothing tone can help relieve tension. If you need to deal with complex interpersonal problems, it is a wiser choice to seek the help of a professional counselor. Healthy communication should connect each other like a bridge, not an invisible wall.