In any communication, respect and understanding are the basis for building a healthy relationship. Deliberately using words that may offend others, even if it is difficult for the other party to point it out directly, can damage trust and communication quality. Instead of looking for such words, it is better to think about how to express one's point of view more effectively while respecting the feelings of others. If you encounter communication difficulties or conflicts, you can consider the following more constructive ways： 1. **Express your needs clearly**: Use the ”I" sentence to express your feelings and needs, rather than blaming the other party. For example: “I feel a little confused because...” 2. **Listening and empathy**: First try to understand the opponent's position, and then express your own point of view. 3. **Avoid ambiguity or sarcasm**: Express your opinions directly but gently, and avoid letting the other party guess or feel passive aggressive. 4. **Seeking common ground**: Focus on the parts that are acceptable to both parties and gradually resolve differences. If you are troubled by certain relationship problems, maybe you can further describe the specific situation, and I can help you analyze how to deal with it better.